Since oral is impossible to pull off underwater, lie back on a towel with your hips at the edge of the tub. Spread your legs, letting your feet dangle in the water, and appreciate what your partner can do with their mouth. Win-win for everyone. This is a great position not only for cunnilingus but for a rim job as well. Get yourselves showered up, then the receiver lies back with their knees bent up toward their chest. The receiver can stand up, holding on to the wall if they need to, and the other person can crouch down behind them. Try using both hands, twisting your way up and down their shaft and licking the area around their head. If oral sex is uncomfortable, try rolling over onto your side. Dental dams —rectangles of protective plastic placed over your vulva during oral sex to protect mouth from genitals and vice versa—have a side benefit that lets you go a little dirtier. The receiver gets on all fours, giver gets behind, drapes the dam over the vulva and bum hole and commences licking.
Intermediate Blowjob Positions
The key to face-sitting is not actually sitting on his face unless you want to literally have a killer vagina. Straddle his head and give yourself a light thigh workout holding yourself a couple inches above his face while he goes down on you. He can reach up and hold onto your butt and hips, because who doesn't like grabbing a butt? Not only is this a totally hot oral position that puts you in control of the angle and pressure, it's also a good segue into the world of anilingus, if that's something you're into. Have your guy lie upside down on the couch, with his back and head on the seat and his legs draped over the back. Kneel over his face, facing the back of the couch. Then bend over and 69 away.
Lying on your back is the most surefire way to get off from oral, say most experts. But if you've got time to explore, test out one of these saucier oral sex positions. Fully Clothed POSE: Just hike up your skirt or dress sorry, this won't work with pants and sit on the edge of something while he kneels between your legs. No need even to pull down your undies—just push them aside so he can get to work. The immediacy and spontaneity of it will feel supersexy. PERK: You can take it out of the bedroom to the couch, a kitchen chair, his home office Also, this position may be easier on his neck than your lying on your back, which can help him go longer, explains Cooper. Sideways 69 POSE: Instead of doing the more traditional and honestly, more clumsy version—where one of you lies on top of the other—lie on your sides. It is way comfier and gives him better access. PERK: It's bad
Giving your man a good blowjob requires a lot of things. You need to have the right mindset, the right BJ techniques which you can learn here and here as well as knowing some great blow job positions to use on your man if you want to make it a good one. Below are the ten best positions that you should use on your man when giving him a blowjob.